Defending the Indefensible: Modern Orthodoxy’s IDF Frontline Feminism and the Real Misogyny

Misogyny is masked as modern progress while halacha is sacrificed on feminism's altar

Mordechai Sones By Mordechai Sones 14 Min Read

While Modern Orthodox Judaism was conceived to balance ancient traditions with today’s realities, it frequently appears to favor modern values over core Torah principles.

This imbalance becomes especially apparent in the community’s growing endorsement of women’s participation in combat roles within the Israeli Defense Forces (IDF). Such positions, once largely avoided on halachic grounds, now draw support from religious Zionist circles, raising questions about where adaptation ends and compromise begins.

This trend echoes the cautions of early 20th-century figures like Rabbi Abraham Isaac HaKohen Kook, who opposed women’s involvement in public life, including suffrage, viewing it as a potential disruption to family harmony and Jewish moral standards. In a similar vein, contemporary shifts in military service prompt concerns that broader societal forces are influencing halachic interpretations more than they should, often under the guise of “empowerment,” while potentially aligning with historical patterns of economic and social reconfiguration.

Halachic Foundations Under Strain

Traditional Torah sources establish firm guidelines on gender roles, particularly in areas of authority and conflict. For instance, the Rambam’s Mishneh Torah in Hilchot Melachim explicitly prohibits women from positions of serarah, or leadership, and extends this to warfare, supported by Talmudic discussions in Yevamot that highlight men’s natural role in conquest while exempting women to preserve modesty and domestic focus.

These principles have long provided exemptions for women in military duties, aligning with scriptural emphases like Psalms 45:14, which celebrates women’s strengths in more internal spheres. However, Modern Orthodox approaches are increasingly challenging these boundaries through adaptive rulings that prioritize inclusion, overlooking the amplified risks in combat environments.

Organizations such as Ohr Torah Stone in Efrat now offer spiritual and halachic guidance for female combat platoons, reflecting a shift in perspective among some leaders. Following the events of October 7, 2023, enlistment among religious women has notably increased, with many choosing service over traditional exemptions despite the inherent dangers, including the targeted vulnerabilities that day exposed.

Modernity’s Hidden Agendas

The expansion of women’s public roles connects to larger societal transformations that began in the early 20th century, when average U.S. income tax rates stood at just 5.7 percent. Over time, these burdens escalated significantly, reaching 33 percent by 2000 and maintaining high effective rates around that level in 2025, compounded by inflation acting as an unseen additional levy that disproportionately affects working families and erodes purchasing power.

As women entered the workforce in greater numbers, the taxable population effectively doubled, with U.S. participation rates rising from about 30 percent in 1950 to 60 percent by 2000. By 2025, overall female workforce involvement hovers around 57 percent, while for prime-age women, it climbs to 78.1 percent, often necessitating dual incomes amid wage stagnation and rising costs, which in turn pressures family structures.

This change also facilitated earlier institutional education for children, gradually shifting allegiances from family units to state systems. Divorce rates illustrate the result, jumping from 1.6 per 1,000 people in 1920 to highs of around 5 in the 1980s; current figures show 35 to 40 percent for first marriages and up to 60 percent for subsequent ones, contributing to broader family instability and a reconfiguration toward greater institutional dependency.

The rise in single-parent households further underscores this erosion, particularly in certain communities where out-of-wedlock birth rates have soared from 10 percent before the 1960s to over 70 percent today. Overall, nearly half of Black mothers in the U.S. are raising children alone based on 2024 data, highlighting how these shifts have reshaped societal structures, potentially serving wider agendas of economic oversight and demographic management.

Elite Influences on Family Structures

Powerful networks, operating through entities like the Council on Foreign Relations, have historically supported initiatives in population management and social engineering. In places like China, such policies have led to coercive measures affecting around 30 million women annually through forced interventions aimed at controlling demographics and altering traditional family bonds.

“Philanthropic” efforts have included funding for reproductive technologies, such as implants like Norplant, designed for long-term birth control and broader demographic engineering. Even environmental factors, including links between soy consumption and heightened risks of breast cancer or fertility issues, play into subtle influences on women’s health and roles in society, subtly advancing population control objectives.

These developments suggest that movements like suffrage and feminism, while promoting equality on the surface, may have been leveraged to enable greater economic oversight, workforce integration, and a reconfiguration of family dynamics toward increased dependence on centralized institutions rather than traditional bonds, turning apparent progress into tools for broader control.

The IDF as a Case Study

In Israel, the integration of women into the IDF exemplifies these tensions, with women now comprising 20.9 percent of combat forces, over one-third of total personnel, and 25 percent of officers. They have access to 92 percent of all military roles, marking a significant divergence from earlier limitations rooted in halachic wisdom.

Among Religious Zionist women, enlistment has surged, with 350 drafted into combat positions following October 7, 2023, and overall unit sizes growing by 20 percent in 2025, demanding scrutiny over whether such roles truly empower or expose.

Still, yeshiva heads describe mixed-gender service as “catastrophic,” citing impacts on operational unity and spiritual observance. The Chief Rabbinate continues to highlight moral concerns, such as fraternizing and impropriety in army environments as can be observed daily at IDF border checkpoints, underscoring the halachic proscription of integration.

Patterns of Erosion

This selective reinterpretation of halacha reveals a deeper asymmetry, where Torah guidelines are adjusted to fit modern contexts rather than the reverse. Some rabbis invoke ideas like communal consent or biblical precedents such as Devorah’s leadership to justify changes, but these are typically seen as exceptions, not rules that override general prohibitions on exposing women to undue harm.

Practical evaluations, including military analyses, often raise doubts about the overall effectiveness of gender integration, pointing to physical and logistical challenges that amplify risks. In contrast, haredi groups uphold strict exemptions, highlighting Modern Orthodoxy’s greater willingness to accept legal and cultural influences from secular society, where non-Jewish ideals overshadow Jewish wisdom and practice.

The path from suffrage, initially resisted but eventually embraced, to current military roles shows how traditional norms can gradually wear away under pressures for equality and inclusion, aligning with larger patterns of societal control that prioritize state and institutional needs over individual or familial well-being.

Addressing Accusations of Misogyny

Critics may label these concerns as misogynistic, resorting to ad hominem attacks to dismiss the discussion outright, such as calling the analysis “disgusting and insulting” or a “vile collection of mistruths and slander.” However, the real misogyny lies in pressuring women into combat roles for which they may be physically or halachically unsuited, exposing them to grave dangers like abduction, rape, and death—as tragically demonstrated on October 7, 2023.

During the Hamas-led attacks that day, numerous women, including civilians and IDF soldiers, suffered brutal sexual violence, with reports detailing patterns of rape, gang-rape, mutilation, and extreme brutality across multiple sites. Such acts continued against hostages taken to Gaza, where they were subjected to sexualized torture and abuse. Among the 1,200 killed, at least 282 were women, with many subjected to willful killings and abductions—251 hostages in total, including female soldiers whose graphic footage showed them bound and terrorized. Pushing for equality in such high-risk environments ignores these vulnerabilities, turning “empowerment” into endangerment—far more harmful than advocating for protective exemption.

Some detractors argue along lines like, “It’s clear that there are more injuries to women in the army as there are more women in the army… If there are no female soldiers, there are no injuries to female soldiers,” turning the problem into an obvious numbers game that avoids asking why putting women there is an issue in the first place. This overlooks qualitative risks, such as biological differences leading to higher injury rates, and dodges the ethical point that exemptions exist to prevent avoidable harm, not to erase problems artificially.

Others might claim the critique implies a “collapse of feminist ideals,” demanding support for equal pay or voting rights and accusing the view of endorsing “vile, disgusting chauvinist policies.” This constructs a straw man, forcing a false dichotomy where disagreement with combat roles means rejecting all females—ignoring that the essay targets specific extensions like frontline service, not foundational rights, and fails to address October 7’s evidence of targeted brutality.

Accusations often pivot to anecdotes, like praising women who “fought and killed terrorists” on October 7 or blaming “men who failed the nation” and “corrupted rabbis” for manpower shortages, turning the discussion into red herrings about heroism or unrelated failures. While individual courage is commendable, it doesn’t negate broader risks or halachic protections; such appeals to emotion and authority evade the inversion of cause and effect, where integration is framed as necessity without proving why women’s endangerment isn’t the true injustice.

Even concessions on evidence, such as admitting that “female IDF combat soldiers suffer higher rates of injuries like fractures which lead to increased recovery time, training dropouts, and resource strain… The solution for this is not to prevent women from serving in these units, rather it emphasizes the need for better conditioning, tailored gear, and dedicated injury-prevention protocols,” beg the question by assuming inclusion must be preserved despite conceded merits of the problems. If higher injuries—up to 23.9 percent stress fractures for women versus 11.2 percent for men in IDF training—are acknowledged, why insist on adaptations that may never fully bridge biological gaps, like lower bone density leading to overuse injuries at 2-3 times male rates? This non sequitur oversimplifies solutions, shifting the burden to “fix” disparities rather than reevaluating the push, especially when halachic exemption avoids such costs and aligns with protecting women from amplified threats like those on October 7.

And to those who favor the bullying tactic of cancelling and de-platforming, which includes requests not to post such analyses in their fora, I ask: Are there really people in Modern Orthodoxy who believe that their own philosophy is so unconvincing, and their attachment to it so weak, their youth so bewildered and gullible – and the outlook of their detractors, on the other hand, so forceful, so logical, and so persuasive – that they must shield their people physically from every confrontation with diverse thought?

Modern Orthodoxy: Evolution or Erosion?

Ultimately, Modern Orthodoxy’s support for women’s IDF combat roles illustrates how contemporary demands can overshadow traditional commitments. By treating halachic boundaries as adaptable to egalitarian and institutional needs—potentially mirroring broader engineered shifts toward societal dependency—the movement risks diminishing the Torah’s timeless authority.

The lingering dilemma remains: When does halachic flexibility descend into feminist folly?

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